13 September 2021
Methodist Church Nigeria versus British Methodist Church
The Nigeria Methodist Church recently blasted its Britain
counterpart for approving same-sex marriages in England, making known to the
world its disapproval over the development, it went ahead to warn other
Methodist Churches in Africa not to engage in such activities as it is not in
line with the vision of the founders of the church. The Methodist
Church, Britain which is the fourth largest Christian denomination On June
30, 2021, gave its approval for same-sex marriages.
Dr. Samuel Chukwuemeka Kanu Uche, during a press conference made
available by the Director, Media and Public Relations, Rev. Oladapo Daramola,
expressed his concerns by describing same-sex marriage as un Africa and against
the law of Nigeria. While condemning this, he asks Nigerians to not join these acts
as it is against the law as the church believes in the holiness of God.
"We are as Methodist Church Nigeria condemn in totality anything gay
relation, same-sex marriage, it is un Africa and it is even against the law of
Nigeria passed by the National Assembly which was duly signed into law".
“Even when our Nigerian president was beckon to reverse the law,
he refused to do so because it is not practised by Africa, and we believe sound
doctrine as promulgated by John Wesley" adding further, Dr Uche contended
that the new law in Britain didn’t apply to Methodist Church Nigeria because it
was no longer under the control of Britain Methodist Church. According to Dr
Uche, Methodist Church, Nigeria is no longer under Britain Methodist Church
because the Methodist Church, Nigeria became autonomous in 1963, adding that
any decision taken by Britain Methodist Church is not binding on Methodist
Church Nigeria.
he also stated that the Britain Methodist Church is not the
mother church of Methodist Church Nigeria again, Methodist Church Nigeria
became independent in 1963.
22 August 2021
Crime in The Nigerian Police force
I remember when Security and Emergency Management Awards (SAEMA), received nominations of gallant Nigerian policy officers mostly unsung security personnel, who are mostly involved in intelligence and combat operations. That was the time when Abba Kari was decorated a Supercop because of his extra ordinary ways of tracking and arresting armed robbers and kidnapper.
Those were indeed the days i thought we were beginning to have some dedicated security personnel in the Nigerian police Force, who are performing exceedingly well in their areas of responsibility. it is regrettable that the same Abba Kyari allowed overzealousness, exuberance and indiscretion to define his actions in his security and law enforcement duties.
it was quite unfortunate that many top public functionaries and business people were wooing the DCP Kyari to their events and yet ill-advisedly too, instead of becoming very cautious, Kyari got carried away and swam in the spotlight, leading to the abuse of the privileges and disposition of his sensitive strategic positions, and mingling with people of questionable integrity, and also posting these on various social media platforms.
While the media praised him for his exploits as a crime fighter, they allowed him promote his efforts, rather than those of his team to the high heavens. This became one of his major Achilles heels.
As an institution that should have moral and ethical values, the Nigerian Police appeared not to have been able to tame Kyari and his likes, even when they show up in very lousy places for the glitz and glamour. the were even tagged celebrity Police Instead of reprimanding and curtailing him, the command seemed to have gotten caught up in the cult of the crime, rather than the intelligence and combat operators that they should be. In fact, when his younger sister got married in 2019, the creme de la creme of society ‘stormed’ Maiduguri, in what was a high society event witnessing guest arrivals in different aircraft.
When you consider the income of the police force and the flamboyant lifestyle these people lead, we are all forced to understand that they are getting these money from places and deals that are not on their pay checks. so i am not surprised when he got linked to the Hushpuppi syndicate by the FBI
21 July 2021
I will not go down without a fight
it is no longer news that the Nigerian legislative has forced LGBT+ people in Nigeria to live a life that is miserable and left vulnerably exposed to police persecution and even tortured beyond imaginations.
Victor ihingere was a living example of this until he decided to seek refuge in the United Kingdom.
According to his interview with Metro UK, he says, he say he wants his story to be one of hope to people because 'i thought, if I’m going to die, I’m not going to go down without a fight. I’m not going to make it easy for you.’
Recalling the moment he was caught kissing his boyfriend in the car, Victor narrates to Metro.co.uk: ‘When two men are caught together, they’d be beaten up by a mob, set ablaze, burnt alive
The young man never in his wildest imagination imagined he would become a refugee. Having come from a well-off family and launching his own business after studying mechanical engineering at university, Victor thought his life was set.
But growing up in Nigeria, where homosexuality is a crime, and with a strict religious family who believe it is a sin, he was left with no alternative.
Victor endured conversion therapy, exorcisms, and a brush with death before he sought UK asylum in 2017 with the hope of living life freely as a gay man. But his struggles were far from over and he became homeless within two months.
Fast-forward four years and Victor is now happily married and living with his loving husband in Birmingham UK.
10 June 2021
Illogical response by Mohammed M Buhari
The Nigerian President, Mohammed Buhari after placing a ban on Twitter, last week granted an interview to Arise TV.
Now I thought was the time for Mr. President to sell himself to the world, however, he decided to make a fool of the situation and embarrass the whole country as a whole. he was asked what he could do to make Nigeria attractive to foreign investors as most investors would rather go to our neighboring countries to invest.
Mr. President's response was that the question was answered during #ENDSARS "you remember the young people who want to come in here and remove me?" at this point, I couldn't help myself but to scream.....the #ENDSARS you are referring to was a peaceful protest and not a coup 'de tat. the young people just want to be governed right and not have some who can not respond to the question he is being asked govern them blindly. we are asking for accountability. we are asking for good roads, we are asking for basic social amenities, we are asking not to be killed and harassed at every given opportunity because of our sexual orientation or the way we are dressed.
This man is so oblivious of what is actually going on in the country that he claims to be president. you are being asked how you can attract foreigners to invest in Nigeria but you are talking about how you called members of the executive council to go talk to governors and traditional rulers and that there is no vacancy in all the parameters of government.
my guy, you are literarily talking out of point. please step down and let some else run the Country
15 May 2021
MAKEUP IS A SKILL
wearing makeup is a way of expressing your self as an individual not withstanding if you are male or female. however, in Nigeria, this is being frowned as and referred to as a gay act and people, most especially young men are at a receiving end of this discriminations. now, i know a lot of talented young male makeup artist on social media as well as content creator that majorly work with makeup artist. these help in promoting their business and attract more customers for more patronage. irrespective of who you are, everyone should be able to wear makeup and not be discriminated against.
In Nigeria, men in makeup face bulling and then compounded with the fact that the society encourage homophobic trolling which majorly leads to queer people being victimized and brutalized mot especially by the Nigerian police. if you remember vividly during the #ENDSARS protests in 2020 when Nigerians gathered to stop the extreme violence received from the special anti rubbery squad, many young men that experimented with makeup were always stopped and interrogated by the Nigerian policy and you can imagine what that would entail.
i honestly do hope for a Nigerian society where everyone can be who or what they want to be and not be prosecuted for it
18 April 2021
THE CONFESSION OF BRIGHT
Bright, who comes from Benin City, Nigeria, struggled with depression and eventually became homeless when his parents threw him out following a blackmail experience with the Nigeria police.
sometime in May 2020, the 19-year old was lured and arrested by the Nigerian police officers in Benin City, who had used other previously arrested young gay men as bait to catch their friends.
Bright says “I just walked right into their trap. I didn't do anything. I was only hoping to meet up with a friend of friends after he called me that he needed me to come to help him pick up something for another one of our friends. That two police officers grabbed me by the trousers and asked for my name. The moment I confirmed my name, I was arrested”.
if was however released on bail but when he returned home, he received a shock of a lifetime.
His family had called and reported the issue to everyone they knew and that included their pastor. "I was then asked to leave the house that I brought shame to the family. My dad said he was never going to have a gay son,” Bright lamented.
Bright said he was homeless for about a month until a friend took him in. However, the friend was also living with his family, and they did not approve of his sexuality. It was then that he reached out to NoStringsNG, which provided transportation for him to move to Port Harcourt, Nigeria, where he was provided shelter at a safe house run by a trans group.
“I must confess that I feel lonely and depressed sometimes, but I am certainly happy to have found a place to stay. I have some peace now and can sleep well at least at night. I appreciate the support that I received and I am aprreciative,” Bright said.
4 April 2021
Clubhouse and LGBTQ+
The LGBTQ+ community in Nigeria has been experiencing frequent abuse lately on the popular social media app Clubhouse. the invitation-based app has been used by queer Nigerians as an escape. the app is used to discuss LGBTQ+ issues and topics.
One user described Clubhouse as a “safe haven” and a “holding space for each other [the LGBTQ+ community].”
Nigeria is considered to be one of the most dangerous countries for the LGBTQ+ community and it has been ranked as the worst place for LGBTQ+ safety, due to the prospect of 14 years in prison or the death penalty for homosexuality, as well as the criminalization of LGBTQ+ rights discussions.
Although Clubhouse has been a safe haven for most, abuse and anti-LGBTQ+ behavior have become more common since its introduction.
Some homophobic chatrooms have even disguised themselves as LGBTQ+ friendly, luring in unsuspecting people before unleashing horrible verbal attacks.
The hijacking of queer spaces on social media has become more common in Nigeria, with some homophobes even tricking gay individuals on Grindr. even with heavy precautions, some users have stated that nothing has been done for reports of abuse.
Homophobia is rife throughout the country, back in 2019 an influential police chief, Dolapo Badmos, told LGBTQ+ people to leave or face prosecution and this statement has caused a lot more harm than good.
28 March 2021
Son of the Rainbow narrates his experience
Mathew Blaise who is popularly known as The son of the rainbow, on social media, talk about his experience with a Priest about two years ago, just after he had posted about his sexuality on Facebook. He said a priest invited him to his church office and harassed him physically by throwing punches and choking him. People that witnessed the incident, did absolutely nothing to intervene, a not-uncommon response to anti-LGBTQ violence in Nigeria, Blaise says. Only 7% of Nigerians surveyed by Pew for its 2020 report said homosexuality should be accepted by society, the lowest rate among polled countries. In 2014, President Goodluck Jonathan signed a law that criminalizes public displays of same-sex affection and threatening LGBTQ couples who marry or have “amorous relationships” with up to 14 years in prison. In some states, same-sex relations are punishable by death.
The assault fueled Blaise, who’s nonbinary and gay, to become more outspoken on social media. After the killing of a Nigerian gay man last March, they created the #EndHomophobiaInNigeria hashtag, which trended for two days. Blaise also organized a group of queer people to march during last year’s protests against the Special Anti-Robbery Squad, a branch of the national police that has a reputation for targeting the LGBTQ community.
Last year, LGBTQ Nigerians won a minor victory when a judge threw out a case against 47 men charged with public display of affection, a crime that can carry a 10-year sentence. “It’s a very beautiful thing to know that despite these laws that condemn our existence, we are still resilient,” Blaise says
21 March 2021
Help save Jane Otubo
On Friday the 19th of March 2021, the Lagos State Police Command announced that their operatives had arrested a 28-year-old groceries seller, Jane Otubo, for participation in gay activities somewhere in Oshodi.
Otubo, is a native of Enugu State but was apprehended at Eniola Street, Mafoluku, Oshodi area of Lagos by the Makinde Police Division.
"We have arrested a middle-aged man for homosexual acts. He is allegedly a habitual homosexual. Police operatives attached to Makinde division nabbed him on Thursday in the Mafoluku area," the Police Spokesperson, CSP Muyiwa Adejobi, said when interviewed.
This is what living in Nigeria and gay means, constant police arrests, bullying and disgrace, and humiliation. Otubo is human, an adult who should be allowed to have sex with whoever he pleases but the reverse is the case here. he was dragged out by his own neighbor and reported to the police who is currently making life unbearable for him.
we need to do something with this antigay law in Nigeria because the life of LGBTQ is at stake.
7 March 2021
#ENDATIGAYLAWINIGERIA
Coming out to my friends and family is a huge step that Uche Maduagwu took so that he can be himself and become the person that he is. He was tired of hiding and living in a shell of himself. He took to social media to speak publicly. After announcing his sexuality reveal he took to his Instagram page a few weeks ago to speak about his experience after opening.
According to this controversial actor, he has lost many endorsement deals, all movie roles, and even lost friends and he is now asking people to join him to embark on a peaceful protest to put an end to anti-gay law in Nigeria.
I am excited that he is able to come but as we all know, his safety is now at stake! I am literally scared for him because he wants to embark on a journey that can cost him his life. The situation of the Lekki toll gate is still fresh and we vividly remember how peaceful protesters were shot at point-blank! Now imagine an LGBTQ Protest! Typing it alone makes me scared of the letters. I remembered during the #EndSARS protesters, we used the medium to peacefully talk about #LGBTQLIVESMATTERS but to my utmost surprise, I got threatened to dare it after the #EndSARS movement and see what will happen. That alone still make me hid in my shell.
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