31 December 2018

Despicable act or Despicable Society

We can’t allow such despicable 

acts to find roots in our society”

— Abba Sufi, Hisbah director general







A lesbian couple along with some other
women on Monday (December 17) in the
northern state
of Kano, where anyone convicted of
having lesbian sex can be sentenced to
death by stoning


According to Abba Sufi, the director-
general of the state’s Hisbah—an agency
which enforces
Islamic law confirmed that the arrest was
made after they were tipped off and this
will lead to charges being brought against
the women in question.
My question is, are there no pressing
Issues that Nigeria need to focus on?
I understand that the Nigerian government
is against same-sex marriage but so is
corruption and crime generally, why are
we not bringing to books all the corrupt
politicians?
Mr. President, you promised to fight
corruption but here we are………...you have
joined the chain of corrupt leaders in
Nigeria.
Like Mama Peace would say…….kontinu

18 December 2018

14 years




What will you say if your child comes up to
you and say he or she is sexually attracted
to someone of the sex?
This is a topic that a lot of people are not
ready to talk about. in Nigeria what you will
hear immediately is are you ready to spend
14 years in jail?
the society we live in doesn't give us all the
opportunities we need to be ourselves and
to be who we are and what we would like to
be referred to as.

About four years ago in 2014, the former
president of Nigerian, President Goodluck
Jonathan, proposed a bill and signed it into
law that the Same Sex Marriage Prohibition
Act (SSMPA), on the fact that the Nigerian
culture is directly opposed to homosexuality.

The law also forbids and ban same-sex
relations. They are also criminalised under
the criminal code of the country and also
under the Islamic Sharia laws adopted by 12
northern states in Nigeria, including Bauchi,
Borno, Gombe, Jigawa, Kaduna, Kano,
Katsina, Kebbi, Niger, Sokoto, Yobe and
Zamfara.
The law in Nigeria against same sex
marriage/ relationship dishes out a 14-year
jail term for anyone who enters into a
same-sex marriage or union and a 10-year
jail term for any person who runs or visits
gay clubs, societies, or directly or indirectly
makes a public show of affection of same-sex
relationship in Nigeria.”

12 June 2018

Periods…….Meghan Markle

Nigeria

While we are still basking in the beauty of the royal wedding I will like to draw our attention to
something spectacular about the Duchess of Sussex.

We all know that she is very good with words and she talks a lot about feminism and can as well
be referred to as one, however, it is mind blowing to know that she is very passionate about
Periods and Menstrual hygiene.

The Duchess of Success once wrote an article on Times HOW PERIODS AFFECT
POTENTIAL. Imagine a world where the female leaders have never achieved their full
potential because they dropped out of school at the age of thirteen. In the western world, this is
difficult to fathom, but for millions of young women globally, this remains their harsh reality for
a staggering reason. From sub-Sahara Africa, to India, Iran, and several countries. The stigma
surrounding menstruation and lack of access to proper sanitation directly inhibit young women
from pursing and education. she wrote

She also emphasized on how policymakers and culture have made neglected this aspect of life which creates barriers to the education of young girls. Considering how various NGO have tried to have policies addressing this concern, the issue still remains highly neglected. 

It is no news that we are now trying to speak about menstruation more in public as against the hush-hush nature but to have the Duchess of Sussex show this hug interest is just amazing!


26 April 2018

Chimamamanda Ngozi Adiche and Hillary Clinton's Twitter bio


On Saturday the 21st of April 2018, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie had the privilege to interview Hillary Clinton at a PEN World Voices Festival lecture at the Cooper Union. During this interview, she asked the former Democratic presidential candidate something that was bothering her. Which is, Why Clinton identify herself a Wife, Mom, Grandma first, despite her career accomplishments?



Clinton responded saying that women should be able to celebrate both their accomplishments and relationships. She also quoted Babara Bush, the late wife of President Bush saying ‘At the end of the day, it won’t matter if you got a raise, it won’t matter if you wrote a great book if you are not someone who values relationships'.
Chimamanda's question, however sparked various debates online as to what Feminism truly means.

According to the Collins English dictionary, Feminism is the belief and aim that women should have the same rights, power and opportunities as men. The Oxford’s dictionary also defines Feminism as the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.

I am of the opinion that what Chimamanda was trying to establish is that women work hard to be lawyers, farmer, Presidents, Bloggers, Writers, Journalist , Engineers etc than to just be defined as Wives and Mothers. She was intrigued by the fact that Clinton who came very close to becoming the first Female president of the United State of America, would first describe herself as a wife. I however, appreciate Clinton’s respond, the fact that she choose to describe herself as a Wife, Mother, Grandma doesn’t make her less appreciative of her Career accomplishment, it only means that she appreciates her relationships.

I sincerely believe that in as much as we quest for the equality of both sexes, which is very important, the girl child is free to choose who or whatever she so wishes to be.


photo credit:Musicnestradio

1 January 2018

#BRINGBACKOURGIRLS



The President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, President Muhammadu Buhari made a declaration through the senator for Borno South senatorial district, Senator Mohammed Ndume, at a gathering in Chibok. In the Declaration, he said that he has not forgotten about the remaining 113 schoolgirls from Chibok in Borno State still being held by Boko Haram insurgents.

As you may already be aware of the fact that Boko Haram abducted 276 girls from a Government Secondary School in Chibok, on the 4th of April 2014 in a very controversial circumstance that has been blamed on the military authorities that are in charge of protecting Borno state. The girls at the time were preparing for their West African Senior School Certificate Examination. Fifty-seven of the abducted girls escaped, three were later found, while 103 were released under some sort of negotiation arrangements. Nineteen parents of the victims are said to have died so far. However, one hundred and thirteen of the schoolgirls are still held by Boko Haram in unknown places.

While speaking with the people of Chibok community on behalf of the President, Senator Ndume said, he was on a visit to convey a message from President Muhammadu Buhari, who instructed him to inform them that his administration is determined to put an end to the insurgency threatening peaceful of the people.
He reiterated the president’s assurance that the abducted Chibok girls being held by Boko Haram are still on his mind. He stated that there were certain lapses during the initial negotiation that led to the release of the other girls. The president is, however, commitment to ensuring release of the remaining girls still in held captivity by the wicked group of people. He also stated that the president would have loved to visit Chibok and address the people himself, but due to his tight schedule, he is unable to do so. The senator on behave of Mr. President also implores the community to divert their energy into commercial agriculture in other to boost the economy of their society.
The chairman of the Abducted Chibok Girls Parents’ Movement for Rescue, Malam Yakubu Nkeki, showed his excitement regarding the president’s assurance of making sure that the girls will be returned to their parents. He expressed his appreciation to Mr. President for his display of solidarity with the families of the affected children. He also promised the president that he will get every needed support and cooperation of the parents of the abducted girls and the entire community.
It was however reported last week, by Wall Street Journal, that 13 of the remaining Chibok schoolgirls being held captive had died due to hunger, sickness, and snake bites. “Of the remaining 113, at least 13 have died, it says. Some were felled by malaria, hunger or a snake bite,” the report states. It also added that Among those forcefully married to Boko haram fighters, at least two died in childbirth.”


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