13 September 2017

menstrual hygiene




Menstruation is a very important aspect of reproductive health however, many culture see it as a shameful and dirty condition. So many girls and young women today are faced with the difficulty of inadequate access to inexpensive and hygienic sanitary items thereby making menstrual periods uncomfortable an unhygienic. A study conducted by UNICEF showed that 1 in 3 South Asian girls had no prior information about menstruation before they started menstruating.

Mr Femi Aluko, who is the Menstrual Health Management (MHM) Coordinator for UNICEF in Osun State on Monday 11th September 2017, addressed the need for the eradication of the various misconceptions surrounding menstruation. Mr Aluko made this address during the Menstrual Hygiene Management (MHM) in Ijebu-Ijesha, Osun State. According to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), the MHM Coordinator spoke about the various misconceptions surrounding menstruation and how it has become an embarrassment and also led to lack of self confidence among girls and young women.

The MHM Coordinator said that an increase in Menstrual Hygiene Awareness is needed as it is a Human Right as well as a global issue which requires the attention of every stakeholder. Menstrual Hygiene according to Mr Aluko is not just about managing menstrual periods but most especially addressing societal belief that surrounds the issue of menstruation.

There is a bill that is currently under consideration to be passed into law by the California Senate in the United States. This bill will require that schools provide certain feminine / menstrual hygiene products for students without charging them a penny. According to a report of their Senate Education Committee Analysis, Cristina Garcia argues that menstrual products are medical products for anybody that menstruates. She also argued that some young girls are absent from classes as a result of little or no access to sanitary products. She made reference to a research project that was conducted in New York City where free menstrual products were provided for students in middle and high school and it was reported that there was about 2.4% increase in school attendance during this project. She also addresses the fact that inadequate menstrual hygiene management especially among girls and women from low income families can lead to infections, emotional pressure as well as cervical cancer. 

It is interesting to note that the same situation of Menstrual Hygiene in the United States (which is a developed country) is also applicable to our society in Nigeria and Africa as a whole. Majority of our young girls make use of unhygienic products such as cloth, tissue paper, newspaper e.t.c during their menstrual periods and these can lead to urinary tract infection among all other infections. 
I am of the opinion that a system can be put in place where young girls especially those in public schools can have direct and easy access to Menstrual Hygiene products so that no child will be missing classes as a result of her menstrual periods and various levels of infections can be prevented. These and more will bring us closer to achieving a sustainable development goal. 


10 September 2017

World Bank supports literacy in Nigeria





Mr Olatunde Adekola, who is a Senior Education specialist of the World Bank representing the African region made a statement at the Pan African Literacy for All Conference that was held in Abuja. And in his statement, he said that the World Bank is going to continue to support the literacy rate in Nigeria by concentrating on the children of school age.

The conference according to The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), was organised by Reading Association of Nigeria (RAN) and was supported by the International Literacy Association (ILA) as well as The Nigerian Federal Ministry of Education.

Mr Adekola, the Education Specialist, also said that the World Bank is in total support of what the Reading Association of Nigeria is doing and for this reason, they will continue to support the enhancement of Education in Nigeria. The purpose of this commitment, he said is because 
1)      Education is very essential as a determinant of the economy and growth of a nation.

2)      There is the need for something to be done so that the educational policies will be able to achieve a Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

3)      There is need to think of a holistic new approach to providing quality education for the vulnerable group of people and most especially the girl child.

According to Mr. Adekola, The World Bank has recently created a $1 million (One Million Dollars) project that is set out to enhance the Northern part of Nigeria. The project which is tagged Nigeria Partnership for Education

This project will be carried out by World Bank in partnership with other development organisations such as USAID, UNICEF and DFID.
The project will be focused on strengthening the government system of Education by providing basic education for children in primary school level. Secondly, the project will be focused on improving the supply and demand side of education in particular to the girl child.

Mr Adekola also noted that it is not just enough to enroll children in school because they will also need to be provided with adequate learning tools. He also said that the project will also include scholarship opportunities for girls to enroll and study for 3 years at primary school level.
Teachers who do not have the National Certificate of Education (NCE) will also be granted scholarship to obtain the certificate within the next 3 years.


A few days back, I published a post on this blog on Domestic Violence if you missed it click here to catch up and I got various responses. A particular response got me thinking because some people hide under the umbrella of religion to beat their wives. Please watch the video below and spread the word.

6 September 2017

back to school




In most countries, it is about the beginning of a new school term for children and for this reason, we have to make sure that all children (not exempting the girl child) has to return to school. As we all know, the key to the empowerment of the girl child is education and the best form of development that you can give anyone is self-development. By giving the girl child an equal form of education as the male child, we are bridging the gap of gender inequality in our society.

The best way to develop and empower a girl child is by educating her and in other for us to successfully achieve this aim, there is a need for us to totally destroy all forms of barriers standing in the way of the girl child to successfully complete her education. The act of the girl child dropping out of school before the completion of their education has been on the increase lately in remote areas in Nigeria and some African countries but we need to understand that for us to bridge the gap of gender inequality, we have to empower our girls and young women by giving them a form of formal education. It is not enough that we build schools and provide teachers in the schools, we also need to understand that it is very important that we get the children to school because that is when they can benefit from the educational structure that is put in place.

When a girl child drops out of school before her graduation, she is limited in various aspect of life as she approaches adulthood. There is a need for a functional education system that practically gives priority to the education of the girl child. The circle of poverty in Nigeria and Africa will continue to increase if the girl child is not given an equal opportunity as the male child to complete her education.

While commending the various efforts that are been made by various non-governmental organisations (NGOs) and various government agencies, there is still work to be done in order for the gender inequality gap to be bridged. We need to identify specific problems such as teenage pregnancy and early marriage which is a major reason for young girls dropping out of school and not being able to complete their education which shouldn’t be. 
It is very important that we understand that when we educate the girl child, we educate a nation

3 September 2017

stop domestic violence


On the 30th August 2017, The Nigerian Wedding Blog published an article where the commissioner for Women Affair and Poverty Alleviation in Lagos, Dr Lola Akande who was represented by Mrs Olushola Falana at an event for Management of Domestic Violence. During her speech, she mentioned that women are the cause of domestic violence in Nigeria by their actions. 

Mrs Falana who is the Director of Women Development Department said vices such as misguided utterances, infidelity, negligence and sophistication by women are the reasons for domestic violence. However, she went ahead to add that men that beat their women are beast and that no man should raise their hand at a woman.

My View: This actually made me realize that our society needs more education on the subject of Domestic Violence. Domestic Violence by definition is the act of aggression towards any member of a family. When a family member is a victim of domestic violence, all members of the household becomes endangered and so is the society at large.
Considering the actual spectrum of domestic violence, we will notice that the circle usually starts with violence towards the mother and then the child or children also gets abused or traumatized in the process (do not get me wrong, men also get abused but in most cases women and children are the victims).

Women’s right a long time ago was just limited to the right to vote but now, we are faced and still frustrated by a system that has an unwritten code that a man’s home is his territory and what happens there should stay there and you hear statements such as …it is a domestic issue let them settle it amicably within the family.

We are also faced by a society which makes the woman believe that she is the reason for domestic violence. No woman, Child or Man deserves to be abused for any reason and nobody deserves to stay in an abusive relationship.

Should in case you find yourself in this situation run for safety and get help.

where to get help?

You can reach out to Project Alert, they stand for violence against women. They can be contacted via email on project@projectalertnig.org or call them on 08180091072

30 August 2017

Bride or Child




Child marriage according to the United Nations is the formal or informal union between a girl and a boy before the age of 18. In this part of the world, the child marriage that we find is the girl child related one where we have a girl below the age of 18 been married off to a much older man. Usually they refer to girls that are above 16 year as old virgins.
 
Mrs Uwais, who is the special adviser to the Nigerian President on special protection plan, according to NAN, explains that child bride is the worst kind of child abuse/violence that you can have perpetrated to the girl child. According to the Child Right Act 2003, a child cannot give consent to sex and as we all know sex has to be consensual if not it is referred to as rape. The fact that a girl child looks physically developed because she has big breast and buttocks doesn’t make her an adult. The Child Right Act however, is yet to be adopted in most states in Child marriage according to the United Nations is the formal or informal union between a girl and a boy before the age of 18. In this part of the world, the child marriage that we find is the girl child related where we have a girl below the age of 18 been married of to a much older man. Usually they refer to girls that are above 16year as old virgins.
Mrs Uwais, who is the special adviser to the Nigerian President on special protection plan, according to NAN, explains that child bride is the worst kind of child abuse/violence that you can have perpetrated to the girl child. According to the Child Right Act 2003, a child cannot give consent to sex and as we all know sex has to be consensual if not it is referred to as rape. The fact that a girl child looks physically developed because she has big breast and buttocks doesn’t make her an adult. The Child Right Act however, is yet to be adopted in most states in Nigeria. The only state in the Northern part of the country that has adopted the child right act is Kano State. In other for child bride to end in Nigeria, all Northern states need to adopt this Child Right Act and pass it into law.
In most cases the perpetrators of this Act say that they do it in other to prevent the child from rape, underage sex and teenage pregnancies but they forget that what is actually being done to the girls is the exact things they are trying to avoid. The point remains that rape within marriage and pregnancy of a teenager within marriage is still rape and teenage pregnancy respectively.
According to the United Nations, 15 million girls get married within a year globally however, Nigeria has about 40% of this child marriage which is dominantly in the Northern part of the country. When a girl-child is married off as a child bride, her childhood is stolen from her. A bride age 13 - 16 is not physically, psychologically and emotionally ready for the responsibilities of marriage and child bearing which usually exposes them to health risk such as VVF and death during child birth. In most cases these girls have to stop their education as a result of this and as we know, Education is a very important tool in the life of a girl. If she isn’t educated, then what happens to the child she brings forth? The circle will continue and poverty will eat deep into the society.
The point here is that a girl child shouldn’t be given out in marriage as she cannot consent to sex related issues until she is 18 when she is mentally ready for such responsibilities
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